party.. because I get very negative comments from people. I know that they do not mean to be harsh. They're just trying their best to bring 'reality' to me. They say:
"Long-distance relationship won't work."
"Don't say yes first. Got so many boys out there. Afterwards, you find a better one, how?"
..S.L thinking inside, there will be always boys who are better with the ones that we are with. That's why adultery happens. That's why when we think we found a 'better' one, without strong commitment, a relationship or a marriage tears apart. Anyway, there will be always boys who are worse than him. I say, there's only one unique person I won't want to let go.
"Out of sight, out of mind".
"Boyfriends are suppose to be there with their girlfriends..they're suppose to take care of them."
"So, what's next lah? Are you two gonna be like apart forever?" *sarcastic*
Sometimes, I keep quiet. I find that there's no point for me to argue with them because they're
so hard up on their opinions. Oh well, it's not like I ask for their opinion in the first place.
Well..I could have given up in this relationship.
But, I won't and I can't...
because I believe there is HOPE
..................and FAITH in God who keeps us both together.
And it has been three years of joy and lil' misunderstanding along the way. :)
In the end of the day, what matters is God's purpose for us.
I'm not too keen to know what a few people say. They don't want to understand the situation.
They're just busy bodies.
However, I'm ever grateful for good friends, church friends and CG people who prayed for this relationship, and that we will grow together. It's truly a divine intervention that we're still together. I can't even imagine being this far apart for so long while I was in college. :)
Thanks for all your prayers and wonderful support. I cherish it alot.